On the Costa Blanca, many of us have created comfortable lives as expatriates or long-term visitors. We’ve found our English-speaking friends, our favourite restaurants where the menu comes in English, and perhaps even our preferred English-speaking doctors and service providers. After all, for this reason we are establishing this Church in Alicante and the surrounding areas. While there’s nothing wrong with seeking comfort in the familiar, there’s something wonderfully enriching about stepping beyond these boundaries to connect with the Spanish community that surrounds us.
As Christians, whether or not we go to church in Alicante or the Costa Blanca, we’re called to be present and engaged with all our neighbours—not just those who share our language and cultural background. Jesus himself crossed cultural boundaries regularly, showing us that meaningful connection often happens when we step outside our comfort zones.
We want the church to be one way that people can build bridges and the Costa Blanca English church will be, God willing a church in Alicante and throughout the Costa Blanca where through our less formal meetings we can bring both the English speaking communities together with the locals to build bridges through faith.
Why Personal Connection Matters
Building personal relationships with our Spanish neighbours isn’t just about being polite residents in a foreign country—it’s about creating a fuller, richer life experience for ourselves and others. When we make the effort to connect across cultural lines:
- We gain deeper insight into the history, traditions, and values that shape this beautiful region we now call home
- We discover new perspectives that challenge and expand our own worldview
- We find opportunities to practice language skills in supportive, real-world settings
- We contribute to breaking down stereotypes on both sides
- We experience the biblical principle of loving our neighbours in tangible ways
Perhaps most importantly, reaching out personally to the Spanish community helps us avoid the spiritual stagnation that can come from living in isolated “expat bubbles.” True spiritual growth often happens when we engage with those whose experiences differ from our own. This is why the Costa Blanca English Church wants to be a truly integrated church in Alicante and throughout the Costa Blanca.
Practical Ways to Connect
Language Efforts
Even small attempts at Spanish can open surprising doors. Many of us worry our Spanish isn’t “good enough,” but locals genuinely appreciate sincere efforts to communicate in their language. I have friends who´s language is limited but their small efforts are hugely appreciated.
- Set realistic goals: Learning just five new Spanish phrases a week adds up to significant progress over time
- Use free apps like Duolingo or Memrise for daily practice
- Join informal conversation groups where mistakes are welcomed as part of learning
- Practice with patient Spanish neighbours who may be happy to help
- Remember that your willingness to try communicates respect, even when your grammar isn’t perfect
- Try to practice “thinking in Spanish”, it´s an alien concept at first but certainly one that will help you learn to switch between languages much easier once you learn to avoid trying to make literal translations in your head.
Perhaps as we develop our Church in Alicante and organise meetings and get togethers we can set up language exchanges or fun practice sessions. I would love to hear your thoughts on this.
Participate in Local Traditions
Spanish culture is rich with traditions that welcome respectful participation from newcomers:
- Attend local festivals (fiestas) even if you don’t fully understand everything happening
- Learn about the significance behind traditions like Semana Santa (Holy Week), Las Fallas, or local patron saint celebrations. We are not the only church in Alicante and if only for tradition you could see what the local traditional traditions comprise of
- Join in neighbourhood events like community meals or street parties
- Observe local customs around mealtimes, greetings, and social etiquette
- Ask questions about traditions you observe—most people are delighted to explain their cultural heritage
Community Service
Finding ways to contribute alongside Spanish neighbours creates natural bonds:
- Volunteer for beach clean-ups or environmental initiatives or other voluntary opportunities
- Join or support local charity organisations that serve Spanish and expatriate communities alike
- Offer skills you have (teaching English, computer help, etc.) through community centres
- Participate in fundraising events for local causes
- Remember that many service opportunities don’t require fluent Spanish—just a willing heart
Building Friendships
Moving beyond polite acquaintance to genuine friendship requires intentionality:
- Invite Spanish neighbours for tea, coffee, or a meal
- Accept invitations even when you’re concerned about language barriers
- Find shared interests that transcend language—gardening, music, art, sports
- Be curious about others’ lives and experiences
- Share celebrations and commemorations from your culture while learning about theirs
- Be patient—meaningful friendships develop slowly over time
And of course, as we grow our church in Alicante and organise Alicante meetings and hopefully meetings throughout the Costa Blanca you can make new friends including Spanish ones!
Supporting Local Businesses
Economic engagement creates relationships while supporting the community:
- Shop at local markets instead of expatriate-focused supermarkets when possible
- Visit family-run businesses where personal connections matter
- Learn the names of shop owners and employees you see regularly
- Recommend excellent local businesses to other expatriates
- Express appreciation for good service in your developing Spanish
Overcoming Common Barriers
It’s natural to encounter challenges when bridging cultural differences:
Language Limitations Remember that communication involves more than words—smiles, gestures, and patience go a long way. Don’t let imperfect Spanish prevent you from trying; most Spanish people appreciate the effort far more than they mind the mistakes.
Cultural Misunderstandings When something seems confusing or even offensive, approach it with curiosity rather than judgment. Ask questions respectfully, and be willing to adapt your expectations when necessary.
The Comfort of Familiarity It’s human nature to gravitate toward what’s comfortable and familiar. Challenge yourself to step beyond that comfort once a week, even in small ways.
Fear of Rejection Some of us worry our attempts at connection will be unwelcome. While occasional rejection is possible, most people respond positively to genuine, respectful interest in their culture and community.
Moving Forward Together
Each small step toward engaging with our Spanish neighbours enriches both our individual lives and our broader community. Whether it’s learning to order coffee in Spanish, attending a local festival, or developing a friendship with a Spanish family, these connections reflect the inclusive love that stands at the heart of our faith.
As we build these bridges person by person, we not only enhance our experience of living in this beautiful region but also grow spiritually through expanded perspectives and relationships. In crossing boundaries of language and culture, we often find unexpected blessings and glimpses of God’s presence in new and meaningful ways.
We’d love to hear your own experiences of connecting with the Spanish community or questions you might have about taking those first steps. Share your stories with us after the service or contact the church office to contribute to future discussions on this topic.
